As my 50th high school reunion approaches, I find myself reflecting on who we were, who we became, and the lessons time insists we learn. Fifty years later, kindness, accountability, and empathy feel more important than ever.

While a winter storm keeps Michigan indoors, a Murder, She Wrote marathon sparks a reflection on how storytelling—and society—has changed, revealing what an 80s TV detective can still teach us about America today.

2025 tested me physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Through it all, I was reminded how precious time is—and how kindness often comes from the places we least expect.

My neighbor puts up a “countdown to Christmas” display every year. The festive sight draws children and adults alike posing for photos—just as I’ve done before. Now it’s a red, glowing reminder of how little time I have left to plan and prepare the Christmas meal.