I swam under the Blue Water Bridge — a freighter in our path, big waves, and my childhood friend who flew in from the UK just to do it. A bucket list moment that turned into something bigger: a Living List.

As my 50th high school reunion approaches, I find myself reflecting on who we were, who we became, and the lessons time insists we learn. Fifty years later, kindness, accountability, and empathy feel more important than ever.